Tales of women being dumped by men sell very well on social media. However, nobody considers the other side of the coin where women pre-meditatedly dump men and make them suffer
An advocate practicing in the Indian courts where justice is delivered 20 years later after judges are legally allowed to drag on a case imperialistic style endlessly, recently wrote about women being dumped by men after sexually and emotionally exploiting the woman in a live-in relationship that lasted for years.
I have some experience during the last decades and more of counselling both men and women in such matters. Therefore, wrote to her on social media about the counter problem.
This is about instances when men are dumped after a long relationship, after being played along by the woman who just wanted a boy toy for sex and dining out with pre-meditated intentions of dumping him after showing him off as an admirer to her supposed infallible charms to her inner circle and her other potential admirers.
This may not have been a live-in at all. This nefarious act by women are regularly achieved without living in luring simpletons who are small town middle class boys who have never come across such filth. These men just wanted a quiet and happy life with a women they liked and had grown to love.
I have found that men are dumped more often but the matter never goes to court as Indian backward and conservative society does not consider the emotional problems of men to be problems at all. Men are considered weak if they do not exploit women and if they fall in love. Men are supposed to drive sex for their own enjoyment and are not supposed fall in love at all. This is the expectation and women’s criminal intent therefore goes unnoticed.
